Feb 01 | Max Lowe shares his experience on being the son of two extreme TNF mountaineers
By Athlete Parents
Growing up as the son of two of the world’s most renowned alpine and high altitude mountaineers has been no ordinary childhood. Since I was a small boy, my father Alex Lowe was off in the mountains for more of my life than he was around me. On October 4th 1990, 7 days before my second birthday Alex became the 40th American to successfully reach the summit of the famed Mount Everest. I flew as a toddler to Thailand with my mother to meet my returning father, making my first intercontinental travel as a two year old. Since that first trip to meet up with Alex, I have ventured with my family to many other wild places in this world along with Alex and later Conrad.
I have gotten used to meeting people and having them ask “Lowe like Alex Lowe the climber?” As I move through life, I am continually amazed by the people I cross paths with who truly knew my father and looked up to him as a hero, not only for his prowess as a climber but for his integrity, compassion and life loving nature as a person. I was first exposed to the magnetic effect that Alex had on people after he died in 1999. An avalanche on Shishapangma, a peak high in the Tibetan Himalaya took his life. Over the next few months, my family received hundreds of consoling letters from friends, coworkers and even people who had never met Alex, sharing how he had influenced or impacted their life. To me he had always just been my dad. Of course he was my hero, but I didn’t know him through his accomplishments as a professional athlete, but through every day life. Early mornings, ski days, practicing violin together and post cards and trinkets I received from far reaches of the globe. I am continually building on who my father was as I meet people he befriended from all over the world. In this sense, as well as just being my dad, he will remain an inspiration for me throughout my life.
In April 2001 my mother Jennifer Lowe married one of Alex’s best friends and climbing partners Conrad Anker. Interestingly enough, Conrad holds a very similar position in the climbing community. He is an esteemed and highly respected alpinist in the climbing community, owning a large number of first accents and difficult successful summit bids. It had actually been Conrad who secured Alex a position with The North Face all those years back. Having Conrad fill the father position in my life over the last 11 years of my life has been spectacular. We have continued traveling the globe as a family, following Conrad to places his adventures led him. Conrad has played an integral part in my development into the young man I have become. From encouraging me through school to college graduation, to helping me develop myself as a photographer he has become my hero and mentor in many senses.
I also have to give credit to my wonderful mother who through all the expeditions and months of travel my fathers and stepfathers jobs demanded was able to raise my two brothers and myself into the young men we have become. Jennifer has remained home as the backbone of the family structure that has remained even through all of the chaos of living in a family of professional mountaineers.
Growing up in the shadow of these two amazing individuals, Conrad Anker and Alex Lowe, has been a trip and a blessing. Definitely different from your average upbringing in the US, but I would have it no other way. My fathers and mother have showed me the door into my passion for the outdoors, and the insight to explore the world for more than what meets the eye, and for that I thank them.



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